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WHEN DID BULLYING BECOME LEADERSHIP?
WHY IS A BULLY IN CHARGE — AND WHY ARE ONLY A FEW STANDING UP TO SAY, “NOT TODAY. NOT TOMORROW.”?
A NOTE ABOUT THE PHOTOGRAPH
The image accompanying this post is not here simply to secure attention.
History has a way of attaching faces to eras. Some become inseparable from what generations remember about compassion, resistance, transformation or political change. Mother Teresa. Nelson Mandela. Barack Obama.
Donald Trump, too, will remain one of the defining faces of an era in American history.
What this era ultimately means will be debated by historians, scholars, supporters, critics and generations yet to come.
But those of us LIVING THROUGH IT have a responsibility to document what we witness, question what concerns us, preserve the record and speak in our own voices.
Not for the spectacle.
For the historical record.
Because sometimes a face does not merely accompany history.
And that brings me to the question at the heart of this post.
For generations, we have taught our children something remarkably simple:
We parented with it. We sermonized about it. We put it into school policies. We warned children and young adults that strength does not mean humiliating someone weaker.
We taught them that power does not give you permission to intimidate.
We taught them that threatening people until they surrender is not leadership.
So I humbly ask America:
That is the question troubling me.
LOOK AT WASHINGTON
Not at one building. Not at one headline. Not at one controversy.
Look at what has happened to the physical and symbolic landscape of the nation's capital.
The historic White House East Wing was demolished to make way for President Trump's ballroom project. The project has also generated litigation and controversy concerning preservation, financing and the extent of presidential authority over changes to the White House complex.
Then look down 16th Street.
The enormous yellow BLACK LIVES MATTER lettering that once stretched across the street near the White House is gone.
Let us be precise about this because precision matters.
Mayor Muriel Bowser's D.C. government physically removed Black Lives Matter Plaza in March 2025. But the removal occurred amid pressure from the Republican-controlled Congress and a broader confrontation over the District's autonomy. Congressional Republicans had proposed legislation targeting the plaza, and Bowser described the dispute at the time as “meaningless congressional interference.”
So yes, the machinery that removed the lettering belonged to the District.
The words disappeared from the pavement.
The history that put them there did not.
AND THEN THERE IS THE REFLECTING POOL
Those who follow my writing know I have already written about it.
In June, I published:
My point then was never simply algae.
It was REFLECTION.
That pool has reflected some of America's most consequential civic moments. It sits within a monumental landscape carrying the language of liberty, sacrifice, justice and hope.
And as I wrote then, its very name gives us its purpose:
A mirror can show us what we celebrate.
But eventually it can also reveal what we have ignored.
READ MY EARLIER GRACE NOTES REFLECTION →
Today, the Reflecting Pool and adjacent areas remain temporarily closed while the National Park Service continues restoration work. NPS says the restrictions are necessary to protect park resources and public safety while work involving heavy machinery continues. The current closure is scheduled through October 20, 2026, unless the work allows access to be restored sooner.
Earlier NPS documentation described the underlying project as cleaning the pool, repairing joints and installing lining material.
So I will not misrepresent restoration as destruction.
But I will connect it to something I wrote months ago:
Not because repairing a pool is itself sinister.
Because while the physical pool is being repaired, the country reflected in its waters is wrestling with questions about memory, history, power, race, stewardship and what our national symbols mean.
And now look toward the Potomac.
THE JOHN F. KENNEDY CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS
The Kennedy Center is not merely another building.
Congress established it as a living memorial to President John F. Kennedy, and it has long served as a major national cultural institution.
Today its name, governance, renovation and physical future have become subjects of political and legal confrontation.
Congresswoman Joyce Beatty, an ex officio member of its Board of Trustees, has challenged actions involving the Center in federal court.
On September 17, 2026, U.S. District Judge Christopher Cooper ordered the Trump administration to provide at least 30 days' notice before taking steps to demolish the Kennedy Center. The order followed new filings after President Trump said the building could eventually be “ripped down.”
Kennedy Center leadership has said that deterioration in parts of the building presents safety concerns and that renovation is necessary. The administration is continuing to litigate restrictions affecting the renovation and closure.
Those distinctions matter.
But so does the larger question connecting all of this for me:
WHO OWNS OUR NATIONAL INHERITANCE?
Imagine a British government deciding that Buckingham Palace's inherited historical identity belonged to whoever temporarily occupied political power.
Imagine treating the Louvre, the Eiffel Tower or the Sistine Chapel as though their cultural meaning belonged personally to whoever happened to be in charge.
And because I am Trinidadian, I WILL ALWAYS BRING MY TRINI ROOTS INTO A DISCUSSION I PURSUE. πΉπΉ
Imagine Trinidad and Tobago treating the Red House — woven into our country's political, architectural and institutional history — as though its inherited meaning belonged to the political personality temporarily exercising authority.
These places are not legally or historically identical.
Leaders inherit institutions.
And that is why I have been watching Joyce Beatty.
Whatever one's politics, the mechanism she chose is part of the constitutional system: she went to court.
She questioned authority through an institution created to adjudicate disputes about authority.
And the court responded.
That brings me back to my original question.
WHERE ARE ALL THE VOICES?
And I don't mean celebrities alone.
Where are the artists who performed on those stages?
Where are the patrons who sat inside those halls?
Where are the musicians, dancers, actors, playwrights and conductors?
Where are the historians, lawyers, architects, educators, executives, entrepreneurs and ordinary citizens?
Where are the people willing to question what they believe is wrong, using the lawful processes available to them?
Throughout American history, individuals and movements have challenged institutions and governments through litigation, organizing, journalism, protest and public service.
And this is where my concern about bullying returns.
We cannot spend childhood teaching our children that intimidation is wrong and then send them into adulthood believing that intimidation becomes leadership merely because the person exercising it has acquired enormous power.
That is the contradiction I am asking America to examine.
Our children are watching.
Our grandchildren are watching.
Future leaders are watching.
And whatever political inheritance we leave them, this is the question I want carried forward:
WHAT KIND OF LEADERSHIP DO WE WANT THEM TO INHERIT?
Power does not automatically make conduct virtuous.
Public office does not turn national inheritance into personal property.
And institutions entrusted to one generation must remain an inheritance for the generations that follow.
NOT TOMORROW.
AND NOT WITHOUT QUESTION.
ENDNOTES | READ THE RECEIPTS
Grace Notes in Context — The Washington Reflecting Pool
My June 2026 essay, “The Washington Reflecting Pool: When the Scum Rises to the Surface, the Mirror Reveals the Nation.”
Read the Grace Notes essay
National Park Service — Reflecting Pool Closure, September 11, 2026
NPS states that the Reflecting Pool, adjacent walkways and designated grass medians remain temporarily closed through October 20, 2026, while restoration work continues.
Read the National Park Service notice
National Park Service — Reflecting Pool Lining and Repair
NPS describes the project as including cleaning the pool, repairing joints and installing lining material.
Read the NPS project record
Associated Press — Black Lives Matter Plaza
AP reported that Mayor Muriel Bowser ordered the mural removed in March 2025 amid pressure from the Republican-led Congress and wider disputes over D.C. autonomy.
Read the Associated Press report
Associated Press — BLM Street Murals and the Washington Plaza
AP's later review described the Washington mural as having been removed under pressure from the Republican-led Congress and examined its continuing historical significance.
Read the Associated Press follow-up
Reuters — Kennedy Center, September 17, 2026
Reuters reports that Judge Christopher Cooper ordered the Trump administration to provide at least 30 days' notice before taking steps to demolish the Kennedy Center.
Read the Reuters report
Reuters — Kennedy Center Closure Litigation, September 16, 2026
Background on the renovation dispute, the board's closure vote, Joyce Beatty's litigation and the administration's position concerning repairs.
Read the Reuters background report
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